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What’s your wabi-sabi? TikTok trend embraces imperfections.
A snaggle tooth, a gap in a smile, a distinctive birthmark—these are the features now being celebrated across TikTok as 'wabi-sabi,' a Japanese aesthetic philosophy finding viral resonance in the unlikeliest of places. The term, lifted from an episode of the animated sitcom *King of the Hill* where the character Bobby Hill admires a rose that's 'a little off-center,' has become the soundtrack for a quiet rebellion against the era of homogenized beauty.Nearly half a million videos have been created under the viral audio, with users from all over the world pointing their cameras at their own perceived flaws—crooked teeth, aquiline noses, scars—and reframing them not as defects, but as unique markers of character and history. This digital movement, for all its inevitable simplification of a deep cultural concept, represents a fascinating psychological shift.In my conversations with people about their daily lives, a common thread of anxiety emerges, centered on the relentless pursuit of perfection curated by algorithmic feeds. We are living through what *The New Yorker* once termed 'The Age of Instagram Face' and what has since evolved into the even more pressurized 'TikTok Face,' a phenomenon defined by aesthetic inflation where extreme cosmetic interventions, like 'preventative facelifts' in one's twenties or the trending 'skinny BBL,' are becoming disturbingly normalized.Research from institutions like Boston University consistently finds a correlation between time spent on social media and the desire for plastic surgery, creating a vicious feedback loop where our offline realities are reshaped by digital ideals. The embrace of wabi-sabi, then, feels like a collective, if subconscious, intake of fresh air.The philosophy, rooted in Zen Buddhism, doesn't just tolerate imperfection but finds profound beauty in the transient, the weathered, and the asymmetric—the crack in a ceramic bowl repaired with gold, known as kintsugi, being its most poetic embodiment. It’s the understanding that life is inherently imperfect and incomplete, and that therein lies its richness.While a TikTok trend can never fully capture the subtlety of centuries-old wisdom, its core message of acceptance is a powerful antidote. It invites a conversation about individuality in a world pushing for conformity, asking us to consider the stories our so-called flaws tell. In a culture obsessed with erasing the evidence of living—our laugh lines, our asymmetries, the natural wear and tear of our bodies—choosing to see wabi-sabi in ourselves is a radical act of self-compassion, a small but significant step toward reclaiming our humanity from the sterile grip of algorithmic perfection.
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